If you answer yes to any question seek help. Ring 1800RESPECT / 1800 737 732
1. Make you ask him for money.
2. Force you to transfer your wages into a joint account but you do not know the password or allowed to use the password
4. You are not allowed to use ATM card, or credit card.
5. Build up credit card debt, housing loan or business loan under your name
6. Demand to know how money was spent.
7. Decide how you could spend money
8. Keep you from having the money you needed to buy food, clothes or other necessities.
9 . Keep financial information from you.
10 . Keep you from having access to your bank accounts.
Adapted from The Scale of Economic Abuse (SEA). Adams, A. E., Sullivan, C. M., Bybee, D., & Greeson, M. R.(2008). Development of the scale of economic abuse.Violence Against Women, 14, 563–588.
Are you being subjected to dowry abuse.
Dowry demands associated with abuse of any type before, during and after marriage is labelled family domestic violence and against the law in Victoria.
The new law was proclaimed on 29/3/2019
The new Family Law Act states
“ The following behaviour may constitute family violence under paragraph (a)—
• Using coercion, threats, physical abuse or emotional or psychological abuse to demand or receive dowry, either before or after a marriage.”;
If you are being subjected to demands for dowry – Cash, gold, gifts small or large in the context of a marriage
Ring 1800REPECT or 1800 737 732 for further help
Here are other numbers to call for information and assistance
1800 RESPECT (1800 737 732) National Sexual Assault, Family & Domestic Violence Counseling Line for any Australian who has experienced, or is at risk of, family and domestic violence and/or sexual assault.
131 114 Lifeline has a national number who can help put you in contact with a crisis service in your State (24 hours)
Police or Ambulance
000 in an emergency for police or ambulance.Men’s Referral Service for Australia- 1300 766 491